How to deal with rejection?

How to deal with rejection: Rejection is part of the game called dating and being able to correctly handle and accept the rejection is an even bigger part of it. Just because you are a pretty peach does not mean everyone like peaches, there would be someone who hates peaches. Hence, there is a right way to handle rejection and we are here to tell you how to deal with rejection gracefully. 

How to deal with rejection:

Be honest with yourself

Simply be honest with yourself about how you feel. Accept those feelings and make sure you address them perfectly. Do not let your feelings exemplify themselves into bitterness over something so little. If you are not willing to let them know your feelings, do so straightforwardly and calmly. 

Avoid changing their mind

A thought-out message asking them to reconsider their decision is not going to help you. Although they are the only person you want to be with right now, in the long run. You will learn you do not deserve to be with someone that does not want to be with them. You deserve better than that.

Do not avoid friendship

As long as you do not make a big issue about it and deal with the refusal maturely, then this person can always be in your life if they want to be. In some cases, it can be the start of really good friends so do not go cutting any ties just because it did not work out romantically.

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Remember that they do not owe you anything 

There is a right way to find out why you have been rejected if that is what you are desiring from the situation. Just accept their no maturely and calmly and, if they don’t want to give you an answer, do not force it out of them because they do not have to tell you.

Stop overthinking about it

Rejection is a normal thing and, it happens to everyone. Sometimes, it can feel like a big deal when you feel it personally. Know that there could be a million reasons why they do not want to go out with you again. It could be to do with their insecurities, family, career, or simply because they do not want to risk their friendship with you. Some of the reasons are based on you having done something wrong with them. But remember that there is more to be discovered from failure than success. Do not blame yourself and know that rejection does not define you.

Rejection is a part of success just as actual success is. If you did not have the low times, you would not know how good the high times feel. So try not to be too disheartened by such a minor setback because something major could just happen to you anytime in life. Maybe this time they did not see in you that you desired them to see, but that does not mean that there is not anyone who will.